Lars Toomre

Some Personal Thoughts, Observations and Trivia

Experience

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Eleanor Roosevelt on Fear

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You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself, 'I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.' You must do the thing you think you cannot do.

Elizabeth Gilbert on Loneliness

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When I get lonely these days, I think: So BE lonely, Liz. Learn your way around loneliness. Make a map of it. Sit with it, for once in your life. Welcome to the human experience. But never again use another person's body or emotions as a scratching post for your own unfulfilled yearnings.

American writer most well known for her autobiography Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman's Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia

Eleanor Roosevelt on Building Character

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People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is how character is built.

First Lady and wife of President Franklin Delanor Roosevelt

Marvelous Thing Called Experience

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Experience is that marvelous thing that enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again.

Albert Einstein on Truth

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Truth is what stands the test of experience.

Value Your Present Moments

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You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done. It is what you haven't done that will torment you. The message, therefore, is clear. Do it! Develop an appreciation for the present moment. Seize every second of your life and savor it. Value your present moments. Using them up in any self-defeating ways means you've lost them forever.

Self-awareness For A More Objective View

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The more aware we are of our basic paradigms, maps, or assumptions, and the extent to which we have been influenced by our experience, the more we can take responsibility for those paradigms, examine them, test them against reality, listen to others and be open to their perceptions, thereby getting a larger picture and a far more objective view.

Communication and Change of Perspective

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There is more than a verbal tie between the words common, community, and communication.... Try the experiment of communicating, with fullness and accuracy, some experience to another, especially if it be somewhat complicated, and you will find your own attitude toward your experience changing.

American philosopher, psychologist, and educational reformer