Lars Toomre

Some Personal Thoughts and Trivia

Love

Love Is Sex Misspelled

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Love ain't nothing but sex misspelled.

American writer whose principal genre is speculative fiction (born 1934)

Tears Are Sacred

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There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love.

Writer called the first American man of letters, best known for the short stories The Legend of Sleepy Hollow and Rip Van Winkle. (1783-1859)

Walter Anderson on Trust

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We're never so vulnerable than when we trust someone — but paradoxically, if we cannot trust, neither can we find love or joy.

Long-time editor and guiding hand behind Parade magazine in Sunday newspapers (born 1944)

William Ward on Criticism and Love

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Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you. Love me and I may be forced to love you.

American author of Fountains of Faith (1921-1994)

Dost Thou Love Life?

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Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that's the stuff life is made of.

One of the Founding Fathers of the United States who was extremely talented in many subjects (1706 - 1790)

Walter Anderson on Hugs

Brunette beauty Iliana Papageorgiou was Miss Greece 2011

If you're angry at a loved one, hug that person. And mean it. You may not want to hug — which is all the more reason to do so. It's hard to stay angry when someone shows they love you, and that's precisely what happens when we hug each other.

Editor, Parade magazine

Impersonal Aspects Of Higher Power

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An atheist may be simply one whose faith and love are concentrated on the impersonal aspects of God.

French philosopher, Christian mystic, and political activist (1909 - 1943)

Living Every Minute With Love, Grace, and Gratitude

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Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.

American motivational speaker, consultant and best-selling author (born 1933)

If One Believes, Love Will Come

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Hope is the most exciting thing in life and if you honestly believe that love is out there, it will come. And even if it doesn't come straight away there is still that chance all through your life that it will.

American actor and producer (born 1978)

No Sorrow To Die

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Because I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die.

American poet (1878 - 1968)

Thought for Today: Banish Ego

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Ego is not just having a big head. Ego is present every time you feel any kind of fear, or hear yourself saying "That's mine!". The truth tells us that nothing is 'mine' or 'yours', we are all trustees, and fear is only present where there is the voice of attachment. So where there is ego, there is attachment, and where there is attachment there is fear, and where there is fear there cannot be love and where there is no love there is misery. This is why there is so much unhappiness in the world. Detach from everything, and you will banish ego, fear will be no more, only then can true love return, and our oldest friend happiness will feel it is then safe to make a reappearance in your life..

Love To Abase Themselves And Proclaim Their Unworthiness

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The people of the United States, perhaps more than any other nation in history, love to abase themselves and proclaim their unworthiness, and seem to find refreshment in doing so... That is a dark frivolity, but still frivolity.

Canadian novelist, critic and journalist (1913 - 1995)

If I Make A Record I Love

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If I make a record I love, then somebody will like it. Maybe not everybody, but that won't matter.

American singer-songwriter, pianist, and actress (born 1979)

Thought for Today: Radiate Light

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Each one of us is a walking radiator. Mostly we radiate thoughts and attitudes. From deep within we radiate our state of being, and the essential, original and eternal state of every being is peaceful and loving. But we block and distort this energy with our attachments. Attachments turn love into fear, peace into anger and then distort our attitudes and actions towards others. This is neither relaxing for ourselves, or for those around us. Which is why detachment is the secret to living lightly and lovingly.

A Love Lesson

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The worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to. Don't fall for someone unless they're willing to catch you. The thing about falling in love is that if you do it right, you'll never hit the ground. Life is too short to be anything but happy. So kiss slowly. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Take chances & never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you. Sometimes, you just have to smile, pretend everything's okay, hold back the tears and walk away. If you want TRUE LOVE you must go through the pain. Women were made from a man's rib, not from his head to be superior, not from his feet to be walked on, but from his side to be equal, from under the arm to be protected, and from next to the heart to be loved.

Matthew Arnold on Love

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Ah, love, let us be true
To one another! for the world, which seems
To lie before us like a land of dreams,
So various, so beautiful, so new,
Hath really neither joy, nor love, nor light,

Nor certitude, nor peace, nor help for pain;
And we are here as on a darkling plain
Swept with confused alarms of struggle and flight,
Where ignorant armies clash by night.

From his work Dover Beach and Other Poems

Love Yourself

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Love yourself — accept yourself — forgive yourself — and be good to yourself, because without you the rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things.

American guru, tireless advocate of the power of love (1924-1998)

Oliver Wendell Holmes On A Kiss

Brunette Playmate of the Year 2008, Jillian Beyor

The sound of a kiss is not so loud as that of a cannon, but its echo lasts a great deal longer.

Associate Justice on the Supreme Court of the United States from 1902 to 1932

Higher Power Holds Key To Every Situation

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Man is made or unmade by himself. By the right choice he ascends. As a being of power, intelligence, and love, and the lord of his own thoughts, he holds the key to every situation.

British philosophical author known for his inspirational books like As a Man Thinketh (1864 - 1912)

Passion Makes World Go Round

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Passion makes the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place.

Ice T

From The Ice Opinion