Lars Toomre

Some Personal Thoughts and Trivia

Forgive

To Set A Prisoner Free

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To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover the prisoner was you.

Forgive But Never Forget

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Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names.

Thirty-fifth President of the United States, 1961-63 (1917 - 1963)

Less Prone To Hate Our Enemies

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We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.

Prominent clergyman and legendary African-American civil rights leader (1929 - 1968)

Higher Power Will Forgive

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I shall be an autocrat, that's my trade; and the good Lord will forgive me, that's his.

Most renowned and the longest-ruling female leader of Russia, reigning from 1762 until her death at the age of 67 (1729 - 1796)

Higher Power Will Be Merciful To His Own Image

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An elder was asked by a certain soldier if God would forgive a sinner. And he said to him: "Tell me, beloved, if your cloak is torn, will you throw it away?" The soldier replied: "No. I will mend it and put it back on." The elder said to him: "If you take care of your cloak, will God not be merciful to His own image?

Commands To Forgive Injuries

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Scarcely any law of our Redeemer is more openly transgressed, or more industriously evaded, than that by which he commands his followers to forgive injuries.

Arguably the most distinguished man of letters in English history (1709 - 1784)

Chuck Our Past

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Our past is a story existing only in our minds. Look, analyze, understand, and forgive. Then, as quickly as possible, chuck it.

Best-selling author and speaker

Mark Twain on Forgiveness

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Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.

Celebrated American author and humorist (1835 - 1910)

Ask What We Can Do Right

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When guilt rears its ugly head confront it, discuss it and let it go. The past is over. It is time to ask what can we do right, not what did we do wrong. Forgive yourself and move on.

To Forgive Changes The Future

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When you forgive, you in no way change the past — but you sure do change the future.

American radio host (1916-1998)

A Love Lesson

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The worst thing is holding on to someone who doesn't want to be held on to. Don't fall for someone unless they're willing to catch you. The thing about falling in love is that if you do it right, you'll never hit the ground. Life is too short to be anything but happy. So kiss slowly. Love deeply. Forgive quickly. Take chances & never have regrets. Forget the past but remember what it taught you. Sometimes, you just have to smile, pretend everything's okay, hold back the tears and walk away. If you want TRUE LOVE you must go through the pain. Women were made from a man's rib, not from his head to be superior, not from his feet to be walked on, but from his side to be equal, from under the arm to be protected, and from next to the heart to be loved.

Forgiveness of Sin

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I believe in the forgiveness of sin and the redemption of ignorance.

American politician and two-time Democratic Party President nominee (1900 - 1965)

Noblest Revenge Is To Forgive

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The noblest revenge is to forgive.

We Do Unto Others As We Do To Ourselves

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The remarkable thing is that we really love our neighbor as ourselves: we do unto others as we do unto ourselves. We hate others when we hate ourselves. We are tolerant toward others when we tolerate ourselves. We forgive others when we forgive ourselves. We are prone to sacrifice others when we are ready to sacrifice ourselves.

American social writer and philosopher (1902 - 1983)

Way To Learn Forgiveness

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The only way to learn forgiveness is to be betrayed. You might understand the intellectual concept of forgiveness, but you will only learn how to truly forgive when someone has done something that requires you to love them and let it go. Life demands these hurtful experiences for you to learn how forgiveness feels, it could be no other way. If there is anyone in your life that you must forgive, instead of seeing them as someone who has hurt you, try to see them as someone who was sent to teach you forgiveness and thank them for this precious gift — then forgive them, and let it go.

Author and polymath

Love Yourself

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Love yourself — accept yourself — forgive yourself — and be good to yourself, because without you the rest of us are without a source of many wonderful things.

American guru, tireless advocate of the power of love (1924-1998)

Francis Balfour on Giving

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The best thing to give your enemy is foregiveness; to an opponent, tolerance; to a friend, your heart; to your child, a good example; to a father, deference; to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, respect; to all men, charity.

British and considered one of best biologists of his time (1851 - 1882)

Thought for Today: Hard To Forgive

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Why is it hard to forgive others? Usually because we believe that they are 90% to blame for the problem, that I am not as bad as they are. So I start to carry the load of other people's actions. If my ego is too hurt, I will have the sense of correction, of justice: 'I know I am right', 'That is not fair'. But if I start to forgive from the heart, sincerely, I remain humble and this forgiveness will bring me closer to others. Then I do not carry regrets or anger, I just let go and remain light.

Always Forgive Your Enemies

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Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.

Irish writer, poet, playwright and prominent aesthete (1854-1900)

Only Have Peace Of Mind When Forgiving

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When I am able to resist the temptation to judge others, I can see them as teachers of forgiveness in my life, reminding me that I can only have peace of mind when I forgive rather than judge.

American psychiatrist and former academician